I doubt that in any massage setting you will be able to wear what you want. In my case I have made it the standard for myself to wear scrubs as it makes me look more professional and healthcare-related. Plus, I work at a Doctor of Chiropractor's office. Sometimes I wish I didn't have to dress so unlike me every day, but the career choices I have made impel me to do so. If I worked at a boutique or something of that fashion (pun), I could wear skirts, jewelry and let my hair down.
Another thing is your arms and hands are your tools, you have to take care of them. I've found that my nails have to be cut till no white shows that way, my clients can't feel my claws.
I love rings. One day if I get married I will probably get a tattoo wedding band, that way it will be practical and creative.